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      People be like: “Just try to think of the last time you were happy and…”

      And I’m just over here thinking: “I remember being happy once… It was 1996. I was nine.”

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    Fri: Its been a long week and I havent had takeaways in forever I’m going to get takeaways.

    sat: Im never getting takeaways again

    Next Fri: Its been a long week and I havent had takeaways in forever I’m going to get takeaways.

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      keep it up, i, a random stranger, am proud of you! :) there’s better little treats for you out there!

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    I think this is buy design. Capitalism zaps your energy by forcing you to pay the bills and leaves no energy for fun. Lazy fun means consuming. Food, drugs, tech, media, etc.

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      I don’t know if I’d go so far as to say it’s by design, but I definitely share your observation that capitalism doesn’t leave much time and energy you would need to pursue hobbies, and it’s way easier to get a dopamine high by consuming.

      Even if this phenomenon is not by design, it is definitely synergizing very well with capitalism, and therefore there are people who exploit it and, in turn, support capitalism with their actions.

      It is actually a depressing example of Niklas Luhmann’s systems theory, which states that every system inherently tends to stabilize itself.

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    Repeat after me, “food is not a reward.”

    Don’t reward your kid’s good behavior with food, you’re not training a dog.

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    Rough Week 523: The little treat is now two whole cheesecakes. I should feel ashamed, but I feel nothing without my little treat.

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    We all need to be reinforced. That doesn’t change when we become adults. If the little treat isn’t working you are being punished too much or need a different little treat. If the little treat hurts you, such as alcohol, try to find a functionally similar treat that doesn’t. Mine was Boba and fancy coffee for a while.

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    That feels quite sad, honestly… I wish you all to find fulfillment and happiness without the need for sugar supplements