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throwawaysalami@discuss.online to Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world ·
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What are your thoughts on "Don't Chase, Attract."?

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What are your thoughts on "Don't Chase, Attract."?

throwawaysalami@discuss.online to Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world ·
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Edit: ‘Chase’ in this phrase is not meant to be taken literally.

For some extra information on the quote: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/compassionate-feminism/202504/the-psychology-of-dont-chase-attract

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    They knew each other vaguely in high school. She moved away for college and came back to her home town to visit famlly some years later. He probably sings and taught himself to play the guitar.

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      She was a successful businesswoman with a promising career. He was a small-town nobody. Can he win her over before she returns to the big city?

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        🎵 Just a small town girl

        Livin’ in a lonely world…

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        he sold Christmas trees though

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