• nexguy@lemmy.world
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      They are happy that they feel much freer saying how intolerant and full of hate they are.

    • exasperation@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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      True bliss is being able to live the serenity prayer (at least stripped of the religious aspects): the courage to change the things you can, the serenity to accept the things you can’t, and the wisdom to know the difference.

      People who feel burdened by knowledge tend to be bad at separating the concept of things that are bad and things that you should actually worry about.

      Ignorance of danger might be good for happiness if you’re powerless to stop it. But it might be bad for happiness if you suffer harm that you didn’t have to, just because of your own ignorance. People who live like that sometimes feel like they’re just tossed around by the world, powerless against the forces that affect their lives.

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      I heard that sentiment a lot the last couple of days, and people were so serious about it. It was mostly because I thought it was common sense to use sun protection with my 3 year old and not let her play out in the sun in a short bathing suit at noon and without a hat. And that I preferred her to wear socks and tucked in pants when they went to a forest with ticks.

      You worry too much Look at us, we also made it here, and our parents didn’t look out for these things How are people even living nowadays with all their restrictions Think less you’ll sleep better Ignorance is bliss, we just don’t overthink it

      Your kids all look like tomatoes turning into raisins y’all

      I feel like in a fever dream

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      you don’t have to go far. just drive until you see the trump signs and flags. ironically, cognitive decline also increases in those areas.

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        I live in a deep red part of the country, surrounded by those people. Not a single one of them I’ve met seems happy. They’re all angry, paranoid and miserable.

        Most are over weight, uninsured, underemployed, and have a whole host of health issues on top of it. Voting for Trump didn’t change any of that, they’re still all miserable.

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          you’re looking at them from your perspective of “happy”.

          they look miserable to you because by all logic, they are.

          their brains have been reprogrammed to believe they’re happy because they are " winning" because you are “losing”.

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            I don’t know man… They’re all pretty eager to complain about their problems and winge about how ‘unjust’ the world is, or how persecuted they are.

            When people tell you who they are, usually it’s safe to believe them. None of these people wanna talk about how they’re happy. They look miserable, but they act miserable too.

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              That’s one way to look at it.

              Same thing I’ve observed, but the look of unhinged glee they get when they talk about ICE or police brutality against minorities is telling me they are happy with the current status and are willing to suffer as long as the others they hate suffer more.

              these fools have a persecution fetish I’ve never before, and I’ve seen some pretty mentally ill people in my time.

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    I actively envy the stupid. Every day.

    Imagine how life must be when your greatest concern is Disney or some social media drama. These people just float through the day entirely unbothered by the myriad of existential crises that are stalking them like prey.

    They’re aggressively wrong about so many things. And absolutely iron clad confident in their wrongness.

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      They are not stupid. They are weak, or overwhelmed, so they gave in to the people that told them that they made no mistake, that they are disadvantaged and that other people are to blame for their problems. Suddenly you go from privileged to underdog. Your struggles feel recognized. It must be a great feeling. That’s why it works.

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      Everybody is wrong, just by different degrees. E.g. you believe they are stupid but maybe they just choose their battles differently.

      How clever are the not so stupid people if they cannot use the internet to create a better place for themselves?

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        It isn’t stupid to check out. If you can’t handle it then you can’t handle it. Make things light on yourself. I won’t judge for that. When I say stupid I mean sstupid. Dumb as hell. Wrong about obvious things they were taught young. And proud of their ignorance.

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      You want to me your cat because you treat them well.

      Being any random cat could be rough. There are a lot of terrible pet owners out there.

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      Being a cat would be nice, but I’d be happy just to have half their self-advocacy skills.

      Me: “Um, hey, I am sorry to bother you, but could you scootch your chair a teeny bit? I need to get to the table behind you. Okay, a bit more. Just a smiiiidge more.” Holds breath and squeezes by. “Okay, thank you! Sorry again for bothering you.”

      Meanwhile,

      Cat: Pounces onto pillow at 5am “Wake up, bitch. It’s time for my breakfast. Now I’m going to meow repeatedly into your face until you comply with my demands.”

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        Cat: Pounces onto pillow at 5am “Wake up, bitch. It’s time for my breakfast. Now I’m going to meow repeatedly into your face until you comply with my demands.”

        The solution to that is to make it very clear, from the beginning that you do not negotiate with terrorists but you do acknowledge her/him and return kindness with kindness. There’s a reason my wife’s relationship with our cat involves a lot more being bitten and meowed at until demands are met than mine does.

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      But it’s never their own fault, they are never to blame. Feels good and righteous to be that kind of angry.

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    Most of them are terrified. It’s only their news sources that mislead them about the cause of their misery.

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      Ehhhhh, given the voting and representation systems we have, a two party system is a logical result, especially when all voters are rational.

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    I’m not so sure about that. A lot of people seem to get very angry about things that I don’t think matters, or they can’t do anything about . . . oh hang on, I get it. You’re talking about me aren’t you?

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      Yup. For every real problem that they’re blissfully ignorant of, there’s a made-up problem that they can’t shut up about

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    What a horrible sentiment. I would rather be the most jaded cynical angry motherfucker in the universe than wish to become weaker and more subservient.