stenAanden@feddit.dk to Lemmy Shitpost@lemmy.worldEnglish · 2 个月前Men against bushfeddit.dkimagemessage-square282fedilinkarrow-up1573arrow-down120
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minus-squarebaggachipz@sh.itjust.workslinkfedilinkarrow-up29·2 个月前 You don’t like bush, cool, don’t sleep with someone who has one. Should this conversation happen prior to the encounter, then?
minus-squareMBech@feddit.dklinkfedilinkarrow-up50arrow-down2·2 个月前Nothing wrong with talking about expectations prior to banging.
minus-squarebaggachipz@sh.itjust.workslinkfedilinkarrow-up73·2 个月前“Oh you grew up in Phoenix? My family’s in Scottsdale. So, like, do you have pubes?”
minus-squareHAL_9_TRILLION@lemmy.dbzer0.comlinkfedilinkarrow-up61·2 个月前Sorry, Scottsdale is a dealbreaker.
minus-squarerunner_g@piefed.blahaj.zonelinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up1·2 个月前I can excuse Scottsdale but I draw the line at Cave Creek.
minus-squareViceversa@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up18arrow-down2·2 个月前In theory - yes. But in practice it would be rude and / or ruining the moment.
minus-squarePostmortal_Pop@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up18arrow-down3·2 个月前If the moment can be ruined by something little, it was going to be ruined to begin with.
minus-squarevelma@sh.itjust.workslinkfedilinkarrow-up19arrow-down5·2 个月前Much more rude to tell a woman you don’t want to fuck her after she’s taken her clothes off.
minus-squareStinkywizzleteats@piefed.sociallinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up11·2 个月前sex is physical use body language
minus-squaretomiant@piefed.sociallinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up3arrow-down2·2 个月前He doesn’t “owe her anything”, so…
minus-squarevelma@sh.itjust.workslinkfedilinkarrow-up1arrow-down4·2 个月前Never said he did. I’m saying it’s probably better to bring up such a strong preference before clothes come off.
minus-squarevillage604@adultswim.fanlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up6arrow-down6·2 个月前Wouldn’t that technically mean she’s raping you?
minus-squarevillage604@adultswim.fanlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up3arrow-down3·2 个月前It was a tongue-in-cheek comment about people who legitimately believe that a woman has been raped if she changes her mind during, but never relays that information to the man.
minus-squarevelma@sh.itjust.workslinkfedilinkarrow-up2arrow-down5·2 个月前No one was talking about that here. YOU brought up rape unprovoked. Rape isn’t funny.
minus-squarevillage604@adultswim.fanlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up3arrow-down1·2 个月前You straight up said it’s not ok to tell a woman that you’re no longer interested in sex. Having sex when you don’t want to because you feel pressured into it is generally considered SA when it happens to a woman.
minus-squarevelma@sh.itjust.workslinkfedilinkarrow-up5arrow-down1·2 个月前Weeds out the weak quickly lol
minus-squareVeganCheesecake@lemmy.blahaj.zonelinkfedilinkarrow-up7·2 个月前If it’s actually a total deal breaker for you then … probably?
minus-squarebaggachipz@sh.itjust.workslinkfedilinkarrow-up1arrow-down1·2 个月前Nah, I’ve been married for 22 years, I don’t care anymore. Actually never did.
Should this conversation happen prior to the encounter, then?
Nothing wrong with talking about expectations prior to banging.
“Oh you grew up in Phoenix? My family’s in Scottsdale. So, like, do you have pubes?”
Sorry, Scottsdale is a dealbreaker.
I can excuse Scottsdale but I draw the line at Cave Creek.
In theory - yes. But in practice it would be rude and / or ruining the moment.
If the moment can be ruined by something little, it was going to be ruined to begin with.
Not at all
Much more rude to tell a woman you don’t want to fuck her after she’s taken her clothes off.
sex is physical use body language
This one got me hahah
He doesn’t “owe her anything”, so…
Never said he did. I’m saying it’s probably better to bring up such a strong preference before clothes come off.
You’ve forgot another scenario.
Wouldn’t that technically mean she’s raping you?
What the fuck?
It was a tongue-in-cheek comment about people who legitimately believe that a woman has been raped if she changes her mind during, but never relays that information to the man.
No one was talking about that here. YOU brought up rape unprovoked.
Rape isn’t funny.
You straight up said it’s not ok to tell a woman that you’re no longer interested in sex.
Having sex when you don’t want to because you feel pressured into it is generally considered SA when it happens to a woman.
Weeds out the weak quickly lol
If you care enough about it, yes.
If it’s actually a total deal breaker for you then … probably?
Nah, I’ve been married for 22 years, I don’t care anymore. Actually never did.