most happy and healthy kids have a unique desire to learn and trying to suppress that is unhealthy

things like screen time, finish your plate, etc

screen time is just a limit on time to learn if the kid is using it for the right purposes which you should teach them to

“finish your plate” I was never told that as a kid and I devour anything that is given to me

    • JakoJakoJako13@piefed.socialEnglish
      181·
      3 天前

      Socializing with strangers.

      Socializing within a group setting.

      Self preservation skills.

      Danger assessment skills.

      Fishing.

      • IAMgROOT@lemmy.wtfOP
        112·
        3 天前
        1. the core basis of internet chats
        2. same
        3. enhancing your security online
        4. Cybersecurity
        5. why would I need that to live
        • JakoJakoJako13@piefed.socialEnglish
          121·
          3 天前
          1. Completely different IRL.
          2. Completely different IRL.
          3. Completely different IRL.
          4. Completely different IRL.
          5. Do you not eat fish?

          Are you currently plugged into the matrix? Or are you living bag of water taking in oxygen and emitting CO2 like the rest of us? Are you seriously trying to downplay the value of IRL experience in favor of a terminally online life? If so you’re proving why the adults in you’re own question are right.

          • IAMgROOT@lemmy.wtfOP
            110·
            3 天前
            1. why would I meet total strangers irl where they can stab me instead of online meetups?
              • IAMgROOT@lemmy.wtfOP
                13·
                2 天前

                the generations before “the kids” built eight game highways and supermarkets and malls that dont “allow loitering” everywhere

                kids simply have nowhere to go

                  • Madzielle@lemmy.dbzer0.comEnglish
                    2·
                    2 天前

                    tell that to my kid, oh wait, hes out riding his bike with friends right now…

                    I get what you mean, youre right about the errosion of the “third space”

                    but youre responding to too many comments or something, because Im responding to where you said talking to stangers will get you stabbed.

          • IAMgROOT@lemmy.wtfOP
            16·
            3 天前
            1. I outsource my fishing to fishermen

            I go on plently walks a day, with my phone ofcourse and eat right you dont gotta be an outdoorsman to be healthy and happy

        • IAMgROOT@lemmy.wtfOP
          16·
          3 天前

          and who has a whole fishing lake in the average city nowadays

          its all barren brutalist concrete

    • Slowy@lemmy.world
      17·
      3 天前

      The fact you don’t see the potential there on your own makes it clear that you have plenty of room to grow in your own wisdom

        • Slowy@lemmy.world
          12·
          3 天前

          Yes, my answer is the same. You are conflating learning with pure comprehension of factual information. Learning and knowledge and wisdom involve much more than that.

    • Steve@communick.newsEnglish
      6·
      3 天前

      I can easily. What kind of environment do you have around? City, suburban, rural? Woods, plains, desert?

      5 universal skills would be: navigation, hazard detection, problem assesment and solving, self reliance, physical endurance.

      • IAMgROOT@lemmy.wtfOP
        18·
        3 天前
        1. navigating the internet
        2. cybersecurity
        3. collaborations ie. github project or codeberg project
        4. cybersecurity
        5. you can do that with a good diet