• ryven@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    5 hours ago

    I don’t like to say “good person” and “bad person” because I feel like it implies that there is some objective scale of goodness that people can be compared to, and I think that is simply not the case. So I would rather think of this question as “Do you have a positive opinion of yourself?”

    No, no I don’t. My opinion of myself is extremely negative.

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      4 hours ago

      I think there are many–possibly even most–“bad people” who have positive opinions of themselves. Dark triad and all that.

      And then of course plenty of “good people” with self-esteem issues who will always have a bad opinion of themselves.

      There should be at least a degree of objectivity when it comes to determining goodness. The bar might be low, but there is a difference between somebody who generally thinks of others (considerately) and who generally does not.