Abuse is a pattern. No parent is perfect. Abuse is about power and control, and as you noted this specific action is part of a larger abusive system. So absent that larger system of abuse, being a blabbermouth is a normal ass character flaw. Stop trying to diagnose people on the internet.
Come on. You’ve never told something to someone else that someone confided in you, because you didn’t think it was a big deal (and ultimately it wasn’t)?
Not everything is abusive.
What they are doing is part of a major system of abuse and the fact that I’m being downvoted is a symptom of it
Abuse is a pattern. No parent is perfect. Abuse is about power and control, and as you noted this specific action is part of a larger abusive system. So absent that larger system of abuse, being a blabbermouth is a normal ass character flaw. Stop trying to diagnose people on the internet.
Come on. You’ve never told something to someone else that someone confided in you, because you didn’t think it was a big deal (and ultimately it wasn’t)?
That’s a very tall horse to ride