I was raised to address strangers and those I wish to show social deference to as “Sir” or “Ma’am”. It’s a difficult habit to break, as it is deeply engrained.

What is an equivalent gender neutral honorific that is relatively common in English? If I can’t break the habit I’d rather have a substitute word to use instead of an awkward pause in the middle of addressing someone

I’d just use Google to ask but I’d rather ask the people directly rather than an AI generated answer based off of Reddit threads

ETA: I suppose if Yessir and Yes’m work, Yesn’t could too? Mostly joking… but maybe… 🤔

  • LurkingLuddite@piefed.social
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    4 days ago

    That might be the words they said while completely ignoring the examples, but those examples made it abundantly clear that they meant gendered pronouns.

    • ℕ𝕖𝕞𝕠@slrpnk.net
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      3 days ago

      Their examples:

      “Excuse me” “Thank you” “I appreciate you” “Do you know the way to San Jose”

      The individual they are speaking to is not formally addressed. I’m not going to address a stranger informally.