My dad is turning 36 in April, and quite a few of my friends (I’m 18, for reference) say that he doesn’t “act his age.” By that, they mean he posts a lot on Instagram (especially daily Stories where he vlogs his life, lol), he’s trendy and very open-minded, works out and takes great care of himself so he looks hot, and he’s really into nightlife and partying. He’s also very adventurous and just a fun guy in general. They don’t think it’s a bad thing at all - in fact, they think it’s cool. But it got me wondering: how is a 36-year-old supposed to act? lol
I would imagine your friends are used to their parents acting older and/or more mature because they are older. He’s probably just a completely different generation from your friends parents.
It’s also common for people who have a child at such a young age to have their maturity stunted. He didn’t get to finish out his youth like his peers so he’s still grasping for it. When his friends were out partying at the age of 21 he was trying to support a toddler.
Other than taking care of himself, and meeting his familial and financial obligations and responsibilities, there’s no way a 36 year old is “supposed” to behave. Though it’s hard to tell as you may have painted a portrait through rose colored glasses.