In my mid-thirties, I decided to take some classes after work. I took an acting class because it’s not something I would have ever done. Ended up marrying someone I didn’t even know was in my class. Guess I made an impression. I was not a good actor.

I also took an art class, despite not being very good at art. Met some cool people that I kept in touch with for a while.

Take some classes, or just get out of your comfort zone. Doing something you’ve never done before, especially with other people who have never done it before, that’s when the brain is lit up and paying attention. That advice also works for dates. Go do something together that neither of you has done before. Do that multiple times in a row. 60% of the time, it works every time.