Track_Shovel@slrpnk.net to memes@lemmy.worldEnglish · 1 month agoMe in my 40sslrpnk.netimagemessage-square9fedilinkarrow-up1355arrow-down13file-text
arrow-up1352arrow-down1imageMe in my 40sslrpnk.netTrack_Shovel@slrpnk.net to memes@lemmy.worldEnglish · 1 month agomessage-square9fedilinkfile-text
Used to doubt myself so much. Impaired by the thought of making a mistake or looking like an idiot. Now I hop.
minus-squarefoggy@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up28·1 month ago When you’re 20, you care what everyone thinks of you When you’re 40, you don’t care what anyone thinks of you When you’re 60, you realize no one was thinking about you the whole time. This can be crippling or freeing.
minus-squareCarnelian@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up12·1 month agoDepends tbh I’ve definitely known some seriously gossipy people who clearly spend a ton of time thinking about others
minus-squareBroadfern@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up7·1 month agoTo (vaguely) quote Dr. Seuss: “The people who mind, don’t matter and the people who matter, don’t mind.”
minus-squarefoggy@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up2·1 month agoOh humans aren’t a monolith. It’s a rule of thumb, and OP is right on track.
minus-squaretrashcan@sh.itjust.workslinkfedilinkarrow-up2·1 month agoI know someone’s already covered this, but seriously: their opinions don’t matter
This can be crippling or freeing.
Depends tbh I’ve definitely known some seriously gossipy people who clearly spend a ton of time thinking about others
To (vaguely) quote Dr. Seuss:
“The people who mind, don’t matter and the people who matter, don’t mind.”
Nice. Now do it verbatim.
Oh humans aren’t a monolith.
It’s a rule of thumb, and OP is right on track.
I know someone’s already covered this, but seriously: their opinions don’t matter