I just really have to say that in my experience and for what friends have told, that is simply not a realistic concern in my mind

As for it being “more common” than abuse, I just have your word for it. And I simply don’t believe it. Because female friends talking about sexual abuse is something both more taboo and more frequently happened to me, than male friends telling me they had to jump a date because the girl was a gold digger.

Hence our difference of views on this

Ofc my suggestion is not to date people until you know them a bit, if that’s so common in your life.