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Cake day: June 22nd, 2023

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  • First thing is to realise that accepting it isn’t:

    • Giving up
    • Being happy about the situation
    • Being cold or heartless
    • …or anything else that others might imply it is.

    It’s just accepting it as reality so your rational brain can work without your emotional side always getting in the way.

    It’s also not necessarily a “one and done” thing. Some days you’ll be better than others, especially initially. Some days you’ll be a mess.