My dad has recently been caught having an affair with his young personal assistant. Huge scandal; mom was very angry. Now they’re in the middle of divorce proceedings. Mom moved out, the other woman moved in and I chose to stay with him because we’re super close; he’s like my best friend. Now mom’s telling me to go and live with her and go no contact with him cause he’s a bad person and by continuing having a relationship with him I’m condoning his actions and “ignoring her suffering”. My relationship with my dad hasn’t changed, I don’t see why I should end it.
He lied, snuck around, and betrayed his wife. You think he won’t do the same to you? Interesting…
The end result is, based on what I can see what OP posted, his mom may not be that great but he’s just like his dad and doesn’t seem to care much about her. He will probably cheat on his partner too based on his attitude.