• peto (he/him)@lemm.ee
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    2 days ago

    The lack of pain-empathy in healthcare is mind-blowing. I’m a white man in an excellent position to be listened to, but when I had appendicitis last year getting people to understand that no, I am in crippling pain and I think it’s urgent was far to much hassle for someone in crippling pain. I can’t imagine what it’s like for women.

    I can understand folk getting jaded eventually but I often get the feeling that many people start out not caring.