After months of getting close, the relationship between Trump and his so-called ‘first buddy’ has become ‘fraught,’ according to a New York Times reporter
        • Diva (she/her)@lemmy.ml
          2·
          10 months ago

          Usually when it’s pointed out to me that I’m reacting defensively I take a moment to think about why that is, maybe you should do the same.

                • Diva (she/her)@lemmy.ml
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                  10 months ago

                  “Sucking someone’s dick” is often used as a way to refer to someone sucking up to someone else in a way that isn’t explicable unless there were a secret relationship

                  why would you immediately assume you understand its usage in every case?

                  so why is sucking dick a thing requiring a secret relationship?

                  also it seems like a specifically gendered expression, why wouldn’t you say “eating Russian pussy” if you wanted to imply that there’s some relationship

                  It just scans as homophobic, just as calling trump/elon women as an insult reads as misogynistic.