• Colonel_Panic_@eviltoast.org
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    4 days ago

    Am I the only husband that truly values and loves my wife’s brain and mind and intelligence and spirit and soul and kindness more than just a body?

    Bodies are fleeting. Fall in love with the person, not the flesh-mech-suit.

    • lastlybutfirstly@lemmy.world
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      4 days ago

      We’re on the Internet so you’re probably in the majority. But the vast majority of people marry someone they want to fuck. Sure, the mind and spirit is part of it, but I love the mind and spirit of my cat but I don’t want to marry her.