• Passerby6497@lemmy.world
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    6 days ago

    I lost my sweet void a few years ago, and it still hurts when I think about her, but the pain is much more manageable that it was.

    Hang in there friend, it won’t always be this hard.

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      5 days ago

      Thank you.

      I may even have more cats in the future, but it’ll never be the same. He meant so much to me, a once in a lifetime connection.

      Even when it gets easier I wouldn’t want it to ever feel totally okay that he’s not here. 🥰

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        5 days ago

        You’re welcome, and it sounds like you’re in the right headspace. Each kitty is their own special point in your life, and no kitty can replace another.

        If it helps you any, in the last year I got a new void after mine died about 4 years ago this summer. I love my new little void, but I still cry over my former void. The hurt is still there, but bearable… most of the time anyways.

        Take care