• swelter_spark@reddthat.comEnglish
    81·
    2 个月前

    To me it means be genuine vs being fake. Acting like someone you aren’t to get a partner only results in having a partner that you don’t have a real connection with, and who values you for qualities you don’t actually have.

    • SharkWeek@lemmy.blahaj.zone
      42·
      2 个月前

      Well yes … but I’ve met many men who, when being themselves, were simply putting in zero effort. And they were oblivious to it.

      Sometimes it takes someone to come in from outside and give them a shove jn the right direction.