Trying to get some input for someone else. Was thinking of upskilling, finding a group, developing a hobby, guided activities. Any ideas?

  • tangled_cable@lemmy.world
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    1 day ago

    So you learned masking…In a way, it’s sad. I hope you have persons in your life with whom you can be truly yourself.

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      23 hours ago

      Not really, although I can see how what I wrote might come off as that.

      Learning how to interact socially with other people isn’t masking. It’s a practiced skill just like anything else. For some people, it comes quite naturally. For others, like myself, it was challenging. I’m happier now because I fit in better with others socially.

      I do not believe in the idea that aspects of one’s personality are immutable and unchangeable. I think that most people would look back on themselves as a young adult and see an entirely different person that who they are now. The same is true for me.