As a moderately broad shouldered guy who prefers side sleeping, I need robust pillow support.
I find that no pillow I buy, at any price, will last more than six months before its going flat every night.
Am I upset about about something that’s perfectly normal here?
Like the “normal amount of toilet roll,” I feel like this is one of those things that we never know what is normal for others.


Not going to lie, it’s expensive…
https://www.pinetales.com/products/buckwheat-pillow?variant=45182891851974
Get the “standard size” and then play with how much buckwheat is inside (there’s a zipper)
This one has a little foam pad cover, I find it works better for me since sleeping directly on a bag of buckwheat can feel a little weird.
I fluff it up a little taller when I sleep on my side, then flatten it out to sleep on my back (I switch positions 3-4 times a night). Best pillow I ever owned.