Ultimately there is no good or bad, only fuck-all.
It’s wildly open to interpretation, really. IMO, it’s a bad thing if it’s under duress or force, or for the purposes of leverage, embarrassment, blackmail, etc.
Unless, of course, those are mutually enjoyable kinks, and there is prior consent and, usually, established boundaries and/or safe words, where applicable.
Ultimately there is no good or bad, only fuck-all.
It’s wildly open to interpretation, really. IMO, it’s a bad thing if it’s under duress or force, or for the purposes of leverage, embarrassment, blackmail, etc.
Unless, of course, those are mutually enjoyable kinks, and there is prior consent and, usually, established boundaries and/or safe words, where applicable.
It’s fucking complicated.