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Cake day: June 26th, 2023

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  • Sounds like you have people you can call? If so, ask someone to go do something physical together where conversation doesn’t have to be center-stage, like hiking. If you live in a place where there’s good hiking spots with challenging terrain, such as steep hills (hopefully accompanied by beautiful views), you might be too out of breath for the absence of conversation to be unnatural.









  • I’ve already accepted that I’m going to rent and work until I die. It’s the sacrifice I’ve chosen to live where I want to live (Bay Area). A friend moved to New Mexico to be able to afford to buy a house. Not me. Accepting the grim reality of our terrible world is sort of liberating.

    Sounds like you also have a choice. I genuinely wish you the best and hope whatever you choose makes you happy. Best of luck!