

Because you don’t love yourself as much as you should, or you would take care of yourself. Because we take care of those we love. But, apparently, you love attractive women enough for them to be motivating. Whenever I know something that motivates me, I use it to the best of my ability, until it comes more naturally (which almost always is by healing something from the past).
So, if being around attractive woman motivates you, be around them as much as you can. Without being creepy or stalkerish or anything non-consensual of course lol.
Edit: also, many of us aren’t taught this, and it certainly doesn’t always come naturally.
What do you think spider web is? Just kidding, it’s not poop. I think.