You can answer SIX whole emails in three hours?

damn that’s like a full day for me.

It is a reference to how western newspapers say there are “deaths” in Gaza without explaining who caused those deaths. In the same way CK was murdered, those people have also been murdered, but western media won’t phrase it that way.

Oh do you mean like all the children that are dying in Gaza? No particular reason or anything, just dying. Sometimes (rarely) “killed”, by whom you ask? Just killed, no need to discuss the matter any further.

Are you conflating romantic stuff with physical stuff here? You can feel romantically attracted to someone without feeling sexually attracted to them.

That being said, she could also just not be comfortable with physical touch because of her trauma (as she told you). That is absolutely a common way for trauma to present itself.

Maybe for other animals but not humans. The fact that we’re one of the few creatures that enjoy sex is the evolutionary trait. In the world before contraceptives, humans enjoying sex meant more procreation.

Blame DEI probably

Holy shit 🥲

Didn’t he say some other racist shit against black people a few years ago too?

Bro imagine if they caught the person (they won’t), and then that person actually turned out to be called Mario

The UK is in shit right now but still in better condition than many other places they colonized.

Yeah, murder is horrific. I don’t enjoy the fact that he was murdered; I feel joy at the fact that he can no longer spread his toxic filth anymore.

They don’t really need a reason do they? Nor do they need to be right or left aligned, tbh. Mental illness makes you do fucked up shit like shoot a POS in front of 3000 people.

Maybe when it’s a specific group of people it can be called genocide instead

Unless you’re every western government, then it’s just “a conflict”.

This is genuinely the first time in a long time that the news has brought me genuine joy. I don’t give a fuck, but I am angry at him and people like him for being so shitty that it makes me feel joy at their deaths. This is on you bitch.

Israel killed 86 civilians yesterday alone.

I don’t condone these deaths either, it’s just some important context that mainstream media conveniently forgets.

My partner is very much in your boat. At home and any time we go out to “safe” spaces (like queer spaces) he is very open and absolutely enjoys himself. We got pedicures the other day and he had sparkly blue toenails for like a week and loved it.

Unfortunately, he works in the auto industry and we live in a more conservative area, so whenever we’re not in a “safe” space, I can 100% see him reverting to a more “hardened” version of himself. I know it’s just self-preservation, but I can see (and he knows) how much happier he is when he doesn’t have to be that way. It really sucks and I wish I could help him out of his shell a bit more, but I totally understand the shitty circumstances.

The patriarchy hurts every single one of us.

Or maybe a majority.

100%. People (not just women) are attracted to confidence. A cute, caring, and confident man who doesn’t give a fuck about toxic masculinity definitely checks off a lot of boxes as an absolute stud. Modern day women with any sort of self respect are done with patriarchal bullshit.

You and your partner sound awesome. Just wanted to say though that enjoying sex has absolutely nothing to do with being ace. There’s lots of us that like it and many others who feel neutral or repulsed by it. You can enjoy the cake without craving any specific cake, and that’s just as valid as the person who doesn’t crave the cake and don’t want to eat it.

Protesting, volunteering, and finding other people who still have energy and hope that we can make something better.

Don’t get me wrong, I don’t think everything will suddenly get better but the more you do, the more you’ll find little wins here and there, and those small wins make it feel worth it.

Isn’t that what that billionaire Nazi is doing?