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Cake day: September 29th, 2023

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  • As long as my bills are paid and I have a steady income, if I want something, I’ll usually buy it. If its something more frivolous or expensive, like the e-scooter I bought myself last year, I’ll just wait for a good sale/deal. But if its something relatively cheap (like under $100), I usually just get it.

    I don’t want kids and I have no hope to ever owning a home where I live. Probably unlikely to retire unless I keep pushing at this job I have and hate but has a great pension. Might as well use my money while I can.

    I have been trying to tighten up my finances though since, y’know, everything. But it’s tough when I’ve become accustomed to spoiling myself.




  • I’ll try to put this in terms that you might relate to.

    Have you ever been at work and your boss asks you to do something you don’t want to do? Maybe you don’t know your boss that well, maybe they’re new and you don’t know how they’ll react to you saying no. They could fire you, reprimand you, or they could simply say ‘okay’ and walk away. Would you be likely to say no?

    This is how women often feel when approached by men they don’t know.

    If a woman tells you you’ve made her uncomfortable once, unless she approaches you again, leave her alone.


  • First of all, don’t comment on people’s bodies, especially in a situation where there is nudity. If you think her tattoos are nice, just say “your tattoos are very cool/beautiful/well done”. This is not commenting on her body, but commenting on her choices.

    Second, if she expressed to you she felt uncomfortable, then just leave her alone. Don’t try to defend yourself. You have no control over how she feels about your actions, but you do have control over your own actions, so leave her alone.

    Additionally, their perceived relationship is none of your business. She expressed to you that you made her uncomfortable. He expressed to you that you made her uncomfortable. Leave her alone.