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  • There are a lot of people in the world, somr will be like that. Besides we are not logical beings, sure logic has helped us a lot but there is no logical thing to do if you are not following or chasing something usually defined by emotions. A goal, a feeling, moral compasses and a lot of other stuff.

    Also sometimes people don’t know they are even hurt or at least deny it which makes the healing process a lot harder if well, they don’t want to heal.

    I believe everyone learns something, every piece of information you process and stuff you deduce in your enviroment, people telling you stuff. Some stuff will be useless long term of course, other will be easier to forget. And if you just spend your life changing pleasure or something, without exploring different perspectives aside from your own, staying in the same circle and using bad coping mechanisms I see it unlikely you will learn much, specially if the circle discourages this stuff and critical thinking and you just distract yourself through life.

    If the people around you don’t grow and that’s all you know, and have a possitive perspective around those people it’s harder that you grow too.

    Also those people are unlikely to be psycopaths. Psycopaths are usually calculative and would not let you know they don’t feel empathy. Of course some psycopaths can be good people even without feeling empathy, some could not be so smart and yea yea. Sociopaths are usually more impulsive too from my understanding. I doubt those people are any of those, probably just more like “those people are different” and that’s hoe they feel no empathy for them. When you see people as others, outsiders, enemies, different or maybe not even human it can be less likely for you to feel empathy for them.

    or idk i don’t know how humans work.