My mother made rice in the morning and forgot to put it in the fridge, it was a hot summer day.

When my brother came back from school he decided to eat the rice, not knowing how long it was out. A few bites in he notes the odd taste, nothing major but noticeable, his solution? Add more sauce to drown the weird taste!

Fast forward about an hour, now my brother is puking and shitting it and everything else that was inside of him. So far this is pretty normal right? It can happen to anyone at least once and it wasn’t anything crazy since after one puking/shitting session he felt better and was mostly over it.

About 2 hours later my father comes home, this man does not throw away food as long as it isn’t covered in mold (this means that small amounts of mould are okay to cut out and eat the rest, thia is the level we are talking about) and just to clarify, we had no food shortage or money issues, he is just unwilling to throw away food.

For some reason nobody threw away the rice yet and it was still on the kitchen counter. My father sees the rice and we all immediately warn him that my brother got food poisoning from it and he should not eat it, of course my father, the genius, decides that my brother just has a weak stomach. He takes a bite, notices the weird taste and you guessed it… Drowns it in sauce!

As expected about an hour later he had a similar puking/shitting session, and learned absolutely nothing.

I don’t think she is, her sex drive is actually kind of high and she has sexual fantasies, initiates often, etc

A doctor is probably not an option unless something serious happens, but thank you for the concern and suggestions 🙏

I’m okay,I just want to see if I can help her get that feeling that she might be missing, but I’m also ready to accept things as they are if nothing works

We boarded together?

Thank you I’ll try that 🙏

I hope you know that that is on them, open communication is important and I don’t see a reason to doubt what one says about their own body.

Thank you! This is really educational and I’ll try it out!

I appreciate your openness 🙏

Of course I would not pressure her, I’m just looking to see if there is something that I didn’t think of

That’s an intersting perspective, thank you

I did, she doesn’t have the experience to know what do to and she isn’t against me looking into it, but she is okay as things are right now.

Don’t worry, I would never push her and we are both happy, I am also not frustrated with the situation, just wondering if there is something else I can try

I did try that, it seems to just lack any pleasure, it is sensitive, but less then other people I have been with and no matter what I do it does not produce pleasure, usually it just doesn’t do anything for her

Probably not as long as we are both happy, at the end of the day both of us are satisfied and happy. I’m just trying to figure out if I can get her to a point of higher pleasure/orgasm, since she never had that and I think she is missing out on it.

Thanks, she does not masturbate, so no knowledge source there.

I’ll try that position you suggested, sounds very intimate as well.

And I am kind of at a last ditch effort here, I of course accept her as she is, I just want to see if there is something I can do to help her orgasm before I give up on the prospect for now. She is very satisfied with our sex life (so as I) but I really think she might be missing out since she never had an orgasm and so she can’t really know what she is missing out on.

I don’t think it’s either.

She is very into the moment and I don’t think she is tense or has a hard time being in the moment.

I’m also not insecure and would have been happy if masturbation was doing it for her.

The issue is that I think she is missing out on orgasming because she never experienced it and while she is satisfied with our sex life, I want to see if I can help her experience an orgasm.

She does not masturbate, so no guidance there.

It would be super helpful if you can share! It seems that she does not orgasm from anything we have done so far, she is enjoing it and has no complaints, but as I’m her first I think she is missing out on something that she doesn’t even know she is missing.

I am aware if the clitoris actually being this big organ that we only see the tip of, but I have never heard of any way to specifically stimulate it without the tip, just that certain positions, movements, etc, can help.

It seems that her clitoris is more like a regilar sensitive area with no pleasure option. What I mean is that it is still a sensitive are (less then other people IME) but absolutely nothing about it, no matter the mood, foreplay, or stimulation is pleasurable for her, at best it’s tolerable.

But she doesn’t…

She is satisfied, but I can tell that she does not reach an orgasm no matter what we do.

Thanks, I do do that and she does enjoy it but it never went past what I already described

We do that both of us :)