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Cake day: July 2nd, 2023

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  • I’ve taken less work than I could, making less money (still fortunate to make what I make), because I get to see my kids more. Kids are also a huge pain in the ass sometimes, and so I won’t leave my wife with more of a burden than I have myself. We’re a team, and we’re a family. When they get older and more independent, maybe I’ll put the hammer down and make more money, but right now I have the perfect balance and I wouldn’t want it any other way.

    Unfortunately, probably gonna have to go bash Nazis eventually.



  • Yeah, I turn down invitations to go out after my nighttime board meetings if it means I get home in time to put my kids to bed. I take them to school in the morning and pick them up just about every day. Sometimes they get on every single one of my nerves, but I love being home with them, playing with them, making dinners that they complain about and it makes my blood boil. It’s all part of the package. The whole idea of the silent workaholic dad is just crazy to me. I want to be the one who takes them to the park.







  • I switched to Lawnchair when Google starting messing with the search bar. They added features right where my thumb would press to use the search bar, so I was constantly opening an AI search that I did not want. Lawnchair let me stick with a launcher I liked and was used to, but gave me the customizability to get rid of bullshit like that.

    And I generally don’t like change, and I certainly don’t want to have to do any work to facilitate a change that I don’t like in the first place, but Lawnchair was incredibly easy to set up and go. Runs basically like an app, you change your default launcher to Lawnchair (and I assume this step is similar for any launcher you’d use), and bam, runs on top of everything and that’s that. Simplicity is key for a simple guy like me.










  • Got into crypto December 2017, which was a high back then, and then everything dropped 50%. But just held on. And so even though I’ve made a nice chunk of change since then, I’ll still hang on and wait for it to happen again.

    I did the corona investathon as well. I’m not sure I have any of the same holdings I did then.

    I think of it all as gambling, and I treat it as such. I have an $800 limit, because if I lose $800 it doesn’t hurt too bad, but if it goes up 1000% (looking at you BMR, you sweet sweet whatever you are), then you make a bunch. So just gambling.

    Then there’s the retirement vehicles. Booioorrrrriiiiinnnnnggggg


  • I posted before seeing yours here but it really comports with what I believe to be good parenting, and you also gave some good rationale, such as regressions and change of school. Young children absolutely respond in drastic fashion to big changes, sometimes good and sometimes bad.

    And societal norms are huge too. I always joke that there’s no pressure quite like peer pressure, and that a child who’s maybe a little delayed in their maturity will have a fire put under them when they see themselves getting left behind by their peers. I had my kids in daycare from six months, because I fully believe that being surrounded by members of your cohort is hugely important in development. On the first day of public preschool, you can tell which kids had some form of daycare prior and which kids spent the last three or four years with mom, dad, or a grandparent.