「黃家駒 Wong Ka Kui」 | (aka: 鳳凰院 凶真 Hououin Kyouma)

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(He/Him/佢/他)

Country of Origin: People’s Republic of China
Current Country of Nationality: United States of America

Native Speaker of:
粵語/廣東話 Cantonese
国语/普通话 Mandarin
台山話 Taishanese
(I probably speak more languages than you do xD)


alts: @WongKaKui@piefed.social


消滅中共,建新中華!
Down with the CCP Regime!

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  • Exactly, China filters their Internet. Just like Facebook and Twitter do. Instead of being at the whims of two rich individuals it’s at the whim of the government.

    Not that one is better than the other, but US users experience the same (from a technical standpoint, not ideologically) kind of filtering but they’re not told that it is the great Zuck firewall or the great Elon firewall even though it is used in the same way to filter topics and ideas that the owner doesn’t like.

    The US doesn’t really block VPNs or many websites. I can access Baidu and QQ stuff in the US without a VPN. My parents regularly use WeChat here in the US without a VPN. In contrast, in China you can’t access a lot of western sites like Facebook/Twitter/Wikipedia, and, intermittently, Reddit, gets blocked without a VPN, and VPNs are much more difficult to obtain and use in China compared to the US.

    As for Facebook/Twitter censorship, that’s on the people. They could easily switch to alternative platforms without using any VPNs but they just choose not to.


  • Honestly my mom is so weird:

    Like, when I was a kid, she’ll cuddle with me, encourage me to sleep in their bed, and like show affection, and she had moments when she was so wholesome and lovely. She frequently tells me how much she loves me, how smart she supposely thought of me.

    But also, often times like… she can easily flip and like yell at me for small mistakes and scold me and belittle me… and I’d cry…

    My brain is so fucking confused… lol… what the fuck was that?

    Why was I shown love, then she flips on a different mask and becomes a different person like an hour later?

    Bipolar?

    Idk I have a truma bond to her, so confusing.

    As for dad… idk he is just like chilling and doesn’t really show either affection much but neither yells much either… like apathetic…

    But anyways, if I ever have children, I’ll do the affection thing, but I’ll make sure I control my emotions and never show anger directed towards my children. I will never make my children feel scared like the way I felt when mom always did to me. Never again.










  • Actually I have no clue how Pomemom works and no clue what it is besides the fact that it’s some Anime / Japanese video game… probably from Nintendo I guess.

    Never played/watched it, not that I remember, but I did see a lot of Pikachu and that’s all I know, it’s kinda like… the Statue of Liberty that everyone knows when they think of the US (ironic in current administration tho), Pikachu is the thing I think of when I hear “Japanese Card Game played by kids all around the world”, well, the ohter being YuGiOh, but I think that’s more like a teen thing, but I don’t remember any of that either… other than the fact that I think I used to have them with my abusive older brother.

    I’m Gen Z btw.

    I learned of Xiangqi (Chinese Chess) when I was like 5-7 and then the International/Western Chess at age 8 when I came to the US (I mean China probably has it too, but I was too young and it’s a higher barrier to entry compared to the domestic chess), and then I think I went some random park in NYC thing and saw the Japanese Chess, I guess its some Japanese American cultural event thing? Idk don’t quite remember.

    So I think everyone knows a variant of Chess at least, so that comment has a point tbh.

    Edit: Actually thank you for this comment, helped me remember a memory. I remember the first Western Chess set I had (shared with my older brother, since we had no one else to play with since we just arrived in the country), we got it off some local store on 86th Street in Brooklyn, NYC (USA). I was this managetic thing, like the pieces stuck to the board and the board closes by folding in half, then you can store the pieces inside and it folds up, very convienient for travel. It also had Checkers Pieces in it. Also backgamon, which we never knew how to play. (Didn’t even have internet when we first got off the plane and then never bothered to learn it later on) It’s a 3 in 1 set… I think it was like $10.99 or something and it was 2010.

    So nostalgic… but that chess board is broken already… oppsie, I tend to break things… the magnet thing eventually fell from the pieces (like the glue holding it together failed), pieces went missing, and by 4 years later when we moved to Philly, we never played again (a lot of family violence, like physical fighting at home, mom was so worried about CPS being called on us fighting, since we were both minors at home alone… well sometimes, not all the time, he was 5 years older than me and he always wins and I get hurt so much, both physically and emotionally, I can’t even fight much, I just kinda try to block the hits), and now the entire chess set is gone… I think I got mad and three it away, since we didn’t even play anymore, so much family conflicts that it felt kinda “tainted”.