• tzrlk@lemmy.world
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    2 days ago

    Yes. The effect of one person’s passive boycott is nothing. If you’re serious enough to sabotage your own relationships over this, then perhaps focus instead on a greater boycott campaign, or actively pushing for legislation to actually make a difference.

    Don’t cut off your nose to spite your face.

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      2 days ago

      The effect of one person’s passive boycott is nothing.

      This is some centrist capitalism-enabling shit. The sum of our individual efforts can amount to great things. Boycotts have been a great tool against fascism throughout history.

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        2 days ago

        @Waffelmeister@lemmy.world is actually boycotting his relationship. I do not think it is wise for him to try to force her into submission rather than leading by a lifetime of example proving that one can get by just fine without Amazon and inspiring rather than coercing her to leave.

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          17 hours ago

          Let’s remind ourselves this is a company actively supporting genocide.

          force her into submission

          coercing her to leave

          You conclude there’s forcing and coercion from 2 sentences? I just see two people with apparently incompatible moral values about consumption. I don’t see any forcing or coercion. I think it’s a very valid reason. If he has or is willing to put patience into the relationship is also a decision he has to take.

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          Honestly, this is more of a values disparity.

          If two people have different values in some places in life, its normal to have adversity.

          Just because it’s a capitalist themed value, doesnt mean this person is being irrational imo.

          Mostly agree with you, leading by example is the way. I am amazon free, but my fucking goddamn husband, absolutely pays for prime for television (and almost never watches much there, very annoying) but, I have gotten him to change his buying habits, and he doesnt buy off amazon no where near what he used to, its like once a year now. Ive have been successful in teaching him to at least think about where he spends money, and who it supports. It took some time sure.