30 something woman here, apparently I masturbate a lot compared to my friends.
I have to say “yeah once a week too” when they raise the subject ,when in fact it is multiple times a day. Husband would also do 2 times a day if he kept to his “normal” cadence. I know “whatever works for me” is right, but I’d like to compare to other people my age that aren’t my friends.

  • TheLeadenSea@sh.itjust.worksEnglish
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    6 days ago

    I used to masturbate every day when I was going through T puberty, that really messes with your sex drive. Once I started E I started doing it like once or twice a week, once I started prog it made me more horny, but more of a tingly feeling all over my body. It was something that was nice to wallow in, so I didn’t feel a pressure to masturbate so often either. And since i have a partner, I don’t need to masturbate very often at all

    • EponymousBosh@awful.systems
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      6 days ago

      It’s still fascinating to me how orgasm patterns follow hormones rather than anatomy. I’m a trans man and I definitely remember the widespread, “tingly” sort of arousal/orgasms before I was on T. Overall I prefer the T ones, but I guess that’s not surprising.